June is Adopt-A-Cat month so now’s a great time to celebrate our Foster Fail team! What’s a foster fail you ask? Well it really isn’t a fail at all! It’s the term we fondly use when a foster falls in love with their foster cat so much they decide to adopt. They may “fail” at fostering, but every adoption’s a win!
This month we’re honouring Antoniya Hristova and Chie Okumura. When a foster “fails” they step in and to do all the paperwork, etc. that’s involved in the adoption process.
Here Antoniya tells us in her own words why she volunteers with VOKRA:
I’ve grown up with cats. While still living in Bulgaria I rescued and found homes for several stray cats. When I moved to Vancouver, I searched online to see if I could continue helping cats and stumbled upon VOKRA. I started fostering in December 2016 and have had the pleasure to share my home with 10 fosters so far. I’ve learned a lot more about cats and especially how to interact with timid or semi-feral cats. I love that I have support and access to wisdom about feline care through VOKRA.
Every foster manages to surprise me with his/her uniqueness. One pair of fosters, Mike and Trixie, stayed with us for almost a year as they’re senior cats (10 and 12 years at the time) and very shy. It took Trixie five months to start trusting me and my partner and to admit she actually very much likes to be petted. After two unsuccessful viewings a young couple showed up and gave them a chance (although they barely saw them during the viewing). We became friends with their adopters and were pleased to see how Mike and Trixie (now named Kimchi and Sushi) blossomed into even bigger love bugs and became a lot more confident. There’s nothing more fulfilling and rewarding than seeing this positive change and knowing you had your share in it.
In July 2017 I started doing foster fail interviews which gave me the opportunity to meet the lovely and devoted Chie. It also give me the opportunity to get a glimpse of the vast numbers of cats that have access to VOKRA care.
Joining VOKRA was one of the best things I’ve done since moving to Canada in 1989. I’ve loved cats all my life and thought I knew them well, but I was wrong! I learned a lot more about kitties, thanks to VOKRA. It’s an amazing organization where all volunteers do their parts. There are volunteers for everything – trappers, medical care, the adoption team, cat care, drivers, fosters, foster coordinators, the finance team and event coordinators, to name just a few. We all work hard for one mission – to end cat homelessness.
Our family started fostering with VOKRA in January 2016 after we lost my 19-year-old kitty, Hana, who we had had since she was one. She was a cranky, quick-tempered but quietly loving kitty and the whole family took her loss very hard. The house felt empty without a cat’s presence, but we didn’t feel ready to adopt a new kitty so soon after her loss. This is what led us to fostering with VOKRA, where we could help cats in need while still giving us time to mourn Hana. I’m the primary caregiver, while my daughter takes the role of socializing with the kitties (a.k.a. having fun!) and my husband is the designated driver. Within a year, we had fostered 30 kitties… At one time, we had one mom who gave birth to seven babies in my bedroom, plus four older kittens upstairs = 12 kitties in our house! That was so much fun! And in January 2017, one of VOKRA’s amazing trappers, Janet, trapped a tabby cat from a snowy industrial area and, a few days later, her only surviving kitten was also rescued. Within two weeks, we foster failed and they were named Kinako and Anko (both are Japanese sweets).
What’s a foster fail? Well, you’re supposed to adopt out your foster cats, instead you fail to do so and keep them forever! We say it’s one of the best failures you’ve done!
People often ask me how I can possibly let go of my adorable foster kitties. I think I set my mind firmly to get them ready to find their forever home when I foster. We still foster kittens from time to time as my kitties are okay with kittens, but not adult cats. I must admit fostering is addictive – I’m now learning from another foster, Andrea, how to bottle-feed babies so I can do that full-time when I retire.
After my own foster fail, I started taking a role in with the Foster Fail team. I thank Sharyn, who used to do everything by herself, for established what we do today. Now Antoniya and I work together as a team. Together we have done roughly 250 adoptions in the last two years. Through working together, we became pretty close despite of our age gap and cultural difference – in fact we’ve learned we have quite a few things in common, beside loving cats!
A lot of foster fails are kitties who have medical/behaviour issues or are too old and stay with fosters for longer periods as many people consider them “un-adoptable”. It’s heart-warming to learn that someone’s unwanted cat can be loved and treasured by someone, and he/she decides to give the kitty a forever home. Although we do all processes electronically and I never meet the kitty or adopter, those special ones stay in my heart. One of them is Beamer, who was blind, deaf and had mobility issues. And even though Beamer is no longer with us, his short life was made better when he was adopted by his fosters Jen and Andrew.
I also do in-person adoption contract 1-2 times a week, through which I meet adopters and go through the contract and payment. It’s so nice to see happy and excited adopters, hear their stories of cats and share my knowledge with them. I get so emotional when senior cats or cats with medical needs are adopted I have to hide my happy tears in public.
I look forward to meeting more adorable kitties, great volunteers and adopters though VOKRA.
WOW! Thank you so much to Antoniya and Chie for all your dedication to VOKRA! We’re so fortunate and grateful to have volunteers like you who care so much for the kitties.
As a volunteer-driven non-profit, we clearly couldn’t do what we do without our extremely dedicated and hard working team of volunteers. Thank you to each and every one of you!
VOKRA is always in need of volunteers. If you’re interested in volunteering with us visit our website at vokra.ca/volunteer.